
Archaic Torso, The Louvre
Archaic Torso of Apollo by Rainer Maria Rilke translated by Stephen Mitchell
We cannot know his legendary head
with eyes like ripening fruit. And yet his torso
is still suffused with brilliance from inside,
like a lamp, in which his gaze, now turned to low,
gleams in all its power. Otherwise
the curved breast could not dazzle you so, nor could
a smile run through the placid hips and thighs
to that dark center where procreation flared.
Otherwise this stone would seem defaced
beneath the translucent cascade of the shoulders
and would not glisten like a wild beast’s fur:
would not, from all the borders of itself,
burst like a star: for here there is no place
that does not see you. You must change your life.
One of the things that derailed the presidency of Jimmy Carter occurred when he confessed publicly that he had looked at women with lust and, therefore, according to Jesus, had committed “adultery in the heart.” People thought he was being a Jesus freak and he was roundly derided by Playboy magazine and other liberal bastions of sexual openness, but he was actually pointing to a deep religious truth.
Lorenzo Albacete writes in his essay “The Face of the Other”that to “look at someone with lust” is to look at that person only as a potential object of sexual pleasure, as a sexually attractive body. A “lustful” look separates a person from his or her body, or reduces that person to an attractive object. In doing so, the sexual body’s participation in the Eternal is suppressed.
But are we asking too much of ourselves not to treat others as objects? Can we ever really see other people as totally “other” — that is, can we see others as independent of our desires and intentions? If that is possible, how do we do it?
Albacete writes that to avoid treating others as objects, we must examine what occurs at the very first moment of contact with another person. He compares this mysterious beginning moment of contact to the “primordial time” of traditional creation myths (think”in the beginning” as ”In the beginning God created heaven and earth,” or “In the beginning was the Word.” At this beginning Albacete says, prior to any thought, we can’t misrepresent the other in our mind, since no idea or concept of the other has yet been formulated. Prior to thought we cannot objectify another.
For example, let’s say you walk outside and you see something you’ve never seen before: an animal with two heads and three tails. What do you do first? You simply look! At that moment you are letting the thing be what it is without physically, mentally, or emotionally interfering with it. It is only at that moment that you really have come into contact with its total otherness. Of course, that moment is just a moment, because a second afterward your mind goes to work and begins to categorize: ah, two heads, three tails, and so on. But that first moment, the moment before objectification is a crucial one, whether with a mythical creature or a human being.
The initial contact with another human being — a reality different from us — is a “happening,” not simply in the sense of “something that happens” but also in the 1960s sense of something big. The encounter takes place in space and time in an unforeseen way. It is experienced precisely as coming from outside of us. Its defining characteristics are its singularity (nothing else is like this)) and novelty (this has not occurred before). As such, our posture before it is one of surprise, wonder, marvel, amazement (before the mind begins to work on it and otherwise destroy it). The philosopher Emmanuel Levinas calls this an experience of “enjoyment,” fulfillment, satisfaction, and interior “nourishment” prior to any particular intention or previous desire. The other is discovered as something totally respond to it. It is like the experience of a weight upon me that was not there before, a presence that demands that I go “out of myself” toward it.
Lorenzo Albacete, God At the Ritz
Did you notice in your reading of Rainer Maria Rilke’s “Archaic Torso of Apollo,” that is precisely what is occurring? It is a poem about a sculpture of Apollo’s torso. After grasping it without any preconceptions, grasping it as a reality that is just overwhelmingly there, Rilke writes, it “bursts forth from all its contours like a star, for there is no place that does not see you.” Rilke then exclaims, “You must change your life.”
This experience of meeting another alters, so to speak, my experience of subjectivity and of identity. From that moment on, my self is experienced as tied to this “reaching out” toward the other. Subjectivity is experienced as inter-subjectivity.
Think about this: nothing is more intimate, more “personal,” more incommunicable than subjectivity. And yet, the word “subject” itself is also used to mean “tied to” or “dependent on” external realities, as in the phrases “being subject to another,” “subject to another’s approval,” and “subject to the weather.” In his book Otherwise Than Being, Levinas puts it bluntly: “Subjectivity is being a hostage.”
It is important to remember that all of this occurs at the very point of encounter, the very beginning of my experience of another. It occurs before there is any conscious mental awareness of the person or this process. The experience of the other for whom and to whom I absent from my prior experience. I become aware of not being fulfilled before by what now fulfills me. If I try to absorb into myself what I have encountered, to live off its enjoyment permanently, it is as if the other were to push me back, to resist being consumed by my enjoyment. Remember, I have yet to formulate an idea of the other; I do not yet have mental knowledge of it. I experience the other as radically “not me”; the other is not an object for my possession.
This experience is therefore also an experience of vulnerability, of suddenly being faced by and exposed to the unexpected. It is as if something suddenly appears that demands my concern, something that I cannot avoid. As such, I experience myself as tied from now on to this new reality. It changes my life. It “faces” me and I “face” it as radically different from me. And so I must am responsible, the one whom I cannot “consume” as an object of my enjoyment but must respect and care for precisely as other – this “primordial experience” takes place in and through the body: my body and the body of the other.
The body mediates the “otherness” of the other, his or her uniqueness, unrepeatability, novelty, transcendence, and “mystery.” Indeed, the moment concepts and ideas are formulated to serve as the basis for my response to others, the body loses its reality as symbol or mediator of transcendence and begins to be considered as an obstacle to it. Thus begins the tragic path to the rock around the genitals, or beyond religion — to the secular inability to grasp the presence of mystery in the body.
Gender differentiation, and thus human sexuality, is part of the body’s mediation of otherness, and thus of transcendence and mystery. In our relationality, our being subject to and with one another, we strive to reach and meet the Eternal.
Lorenzo Albacete, God At the Ritz
This is why looking at art and reading poetry is so important. It gives us a kind of practice in experiencing the sheer otherness of our fellow humans. Many of us enter museums anticipating these kind of encounters. Perhaps it is one of the reasons we visit them in the first place. Yet I wonder how many of us bring that same kind of consciousness when we greet someone new for the first time. “Intimacy demands the acceptance of the other’s personal subjectivity and all that it implies: that is, the acceptance of the person in his entirety, and the offer of a space in which he can be himself, in the totality of his identity.”
Each person, it is claimed by homosexualist gender theories, must develop his own psychosocial sexual identity without being coerced by social or moral prejudices. In this way, biological gender is seen as a purely neutral element that may be shaped in different ways, has no relevance to the gender of the individual, and is susceptible to different modalities of orientation at the relational level.
This approach then results in a decisive conclusion: the assumption of personal identity is not just a simple given that follows a biological template: it also emerges from one’s personal history. Just as a child must accept his parents, his skin color, or certain capacities and limits, and just as this acceptance is decisive for his own identity as an agent within a drama that is composed of multiple actors, so each person must construct his own psycho-social sexual identity, a process that normally occurs without major problems, but that in certain circumstances can result in difficulty and serious conflict. Its contributions notwithstanding, the gender-theory approach obscures the core problem.
Fr. José Noriega Homosexuality: The Semblance Of Intimacy
Fr. José Noriega, Vice-Chancellor of the Pontifical John Paul II Institute for Studies on Marriage and Family at the Pontifical Lateran University in Rome specializes in sexual ethics and is a professor of moral theology. His very dense writing on the false intimacy of homosexualism sheds light on what Monsignor Albacete is getting to when he writes of the secular inability to grasp the presence of mystery in the body.